tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003900363519900001.post6734572959881909422..comments2023-09-19T06:43:48.231-04:00Comments on .I heard you were looking for me.: .uncertainty.Bianca Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00790292802035950650noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003900363519900001.post-2534072762802045012010-07-19T09:46:36.323-04:002010-07-19T09:46:36.323-04:00and i get that! we are young, who wants to settle ...and i get that! we are young, who wants to settle down and be in a relationship? but i've done the only no relationship, just relations for a longggg time. like some years and i wasn't happy. so now i want to do things a little differently. i'm not going to make it all about me for the whole time, no, but i do want to be respected in my decision. so i'll wait until i'm in a relationship and if the guys who are sticking around, lose some grip, i understand. thanks Justin for reading and giving some new insight :) i hope you like what you've read so far.Bianca Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00790292802035950650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003900363519900001.post-35080851857270946202010-07-19T09:35:36.626-04:002010-07-19T09:35:36.626-04:00It is not a literal game. It is just the term that...It is not a literal game. It is just the term that is used to call what people do and say to each other during the reltionship building process. Do know that all sucessful relationships are the result of a <i>Love Game</i> of some sort. You play it but you just don't want to call it that. As far as the guys that "stick around." They are staying to give you an opportunity to prove that without sex, you can still make them happy. Now in that area, I can't give advice because all men are different. But my theory is that: At our age when a man meets a woman he has to "wait" for, he reaches a crossroad. "Do I need sex right away or, is that not as important as companionship" At 20 & 21 years old I would say 90% are going to need sex right away...jhodgebeatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940587122245369660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003900363519900001.post-57040191081531529502010-07-19T09:20:04.261-04:002010-07-19T09:20:04.261-04:00but as i said, there are some guys that stick arou...but as i said, there are some guys that stick around knowing that i'm not going to be physical. i don't like playing games, so i let it be known. i mean i don't just come out and say "hi i'm bianca, and i'm not boning you" lol but i do let that person know when i can see where the conversation begins to go and when the body signs show other things, that sex isn't an option right now. it's not about a time period without sex. it's when i meet someone who deserves my sex. when i'm in a relationship, that's when i won't have an issue.Bianca Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00790292802035950650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003900363519900001.post-44092275537738109212010-07-19T09:15:04.400-04:002010-07-19T09:15:04.400-04:00Your problem is not that you are withholding sex f...Your problem is not that you are withholding sex for a certain amount of time. The problem lies in the fact that you are actually telling him your not going to have sex with him for a while. From the female side of <i>The Game</i> information like that needs to be kept to yourself. If he asks, you say "When the feelings are right" Having a predetermined timetable of when your going to have physical relations is just telling a guy, unconsciously, that your not about feelings and emotions, you are just trying to get what you want from him.(whatever that may be) And when it comes to a guy resorting to someone else, that is a risk you are taking by holding back physical relations. Remember the last thing a dude wants to hear is "no sex for..." It doesn't matter how long it is. As long as he thinks he is close to "gettin' some" he will keep pursuing you.jhodgebeatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940587122245369660noreply@blogger.com