.the sperm chases the egg. the egg doesn't chase the sperm. it's stationary. it's settled. therefore it's in the guys nature, the chase.
where has the chase gone? why do we give in so easily? if he wants you, let him come and get you. let him know you're interested and the rest is in his hands and if he doesn't start the chase, there are others that will begin the run for him. trust.