"Trust yourself. Trusting yourself means living out what you already know to be true."
I've learned to stop asking people for advice on certain things. I mean what is really asking for advice in some cases other than searching until you hear what you want to be said. You know you should break up with her but you keep asking for advice until you hear someone say that it's okay to stay type of thing. My advice is to just trust yourself. In the Bible, there's a verse that says to rely on Godly counsel. Even the Bible instructs you to not should seek too many opinions from others.
There's a recent joy I've found in silence. I keep a lot of things from people. I'm not untrustworthy or deceitful. I don't have any hidden agendas or secrets up my sleeve. I just don't think complaining about something or venting to people in some circumstances is truly beneficial to me. We all have different struggles, weaknesses and fights and if you're anything like me you on occasion react first and think later. But when I keep my silence, no one knows about my short-lived plummet and I rely solely on myself to make the next decision. There are things I am going to have in my life that seem impossible, hurtful, abusive, insane, crazy or even delusional to others but I trust myself. I first forgive myself for the mistakes, the falls and the fails but I still trust myself. Once I started trusting myself, I began to wake up every morning feeling blessed and beautiful.
How you doing?