This weekend was interesting!
Friday night, I agreed to meet up with someone that follows me on twitter and instagram. I know, I know there are dangers and all of that from meeting strangers. I had a friend come with me and the person that I met isn't really a stranger, though they were, because they went to the same college that I did. I just never came across them before. We met up in Montclair for dinner and Hookah. It was really fun. Hilarious!
Honestly just what I needed. I'm not really anywhere emotionally in any state, to try to "meet someone". I'm not interested in looking or trying at the moment. I don't want to have sex with anyone. I just need to focus on work and me. I've been feeling like I've been in such a rut lately. In a routine of sadness and blandness so doing this, was definitely a break out of the routine that I've found myself in lately. It was good to go out and laugh and get to know someone new. Plus it makes for a great story!
Saturday, I went out to Hoboken. I really love it there. I'd love to be able to live there but that's neither here or there, I'll one day talk about my "finding an apartment adventure" in the near future. (what an experience!) So I went to Room 84 in Hoboken with a friend of mine, to celebrate their birthday. I haven't been out to a club in a while. I haven't put on a tight dressing in even longer. But I slipped into the dress and had fun. While getting dressed, I knew it would be one of my last times going out. I really don't like to be in the clubs. I'm not interested in meeting anyone in a club because the idea is purely lustful and sexual off hand. No one is trying to get to know someone in a club lol. We were in VIP and of course the bottles were popped and the twerking began -haha. Afterwards on my way home, I ended up somewhere that I didn't want to be and I was stranded without a way home. I ended up walking to where I needed to go. I called on some people but no one was available. I'm just glad that I'm safe and alive.
Yesterday, I just napped and laid around the house. My aunt went to the hospital so I was concerned about that but I just lounged about. Tried to relax and get ready for work for the week. Nothing out of the ordinary. Just some much needed alone and me time.